Planning a wedding hasn’t been so much about budgeting and picking colors and trying on lacy dresses as it has been about coming to terms with the fact that my family is a little insane. And his family is little insane. And I’m insane. And he’s a little insane, too. And, yet, somehow we’re all crazy in our own unique ways and we must reconcile these different brands of crazy get us all in one place on the same day. This has given me crazy stress dreams, but it has (and is) teaching me how to relate to my family, his family, him, and myself better.
It’s the worst and everyone should do it.